20 Rules To Keep A Relationship Alive & Well

1. Don't push each other into saying I love you.
2. Become each others confidantes.
3. Surround each other with comforts, but do not become their servant.
4. Let them know you desire them.
5. Make them proud to be with you.
6. Retain your own identity and an independent life.
7. Maintain a sense of humor.
8. Affirm each others strengths and accept their weaknesses.
9. Be honest without being destructive.
10. Trust in each other, but do not become dependent.
11. Communicate your needs and expectations clearly, unless you are with a mind reader.
12. Get to know your mates needs, and try to provide them directly or indirectly.
13. Make pleasure a mainstay in the relationship.
14. Avoid guilt trips and head games.
15. Don't be trapped into generalized gender roles.
16. Never ask for more than you are willing to give.
17. Establish an atmosphere of trust and affection.
18. Expect the relationship to change and grow, give each other plenty of space.
19. Share the good times and let your mate know you will be there for the bad times as well
20. Never take each other for granted.